Doosri taraf agar mard ko surat e inzal ka khauf ya tanau ka masla hai to do din mubashrat (intercourse)
kay bajaey foreplay karney sey iss ka surat e inzal aur naakami kay
khauf bohut had tak khatam ya kam az kam bohut kam hojata hai. En days
mubashrat (intercourse) kay bajaey sirf foreplay sey jinsi lutf hasil karein. Albatta jab bhi pehli mubashrat (first intercourse) karni
ho iss ki baqaida tayyari kareyn, sham ko kam sey jald wapis ajaeyn,
khana jaldi aur halka khaein. Biwi ki tareef karein, isey bataein kay
aap ko iss raat ka barson sey intezar tha. Kaam per bhi aap isey yad
kartey rahey.
Sham ko ghusl karlein, tooth paste karna naa bholein, apney jism aur
libas ko khusboo sey muatter karein. Foreplay sey pehley biwi kay jism
khusoosan aaza e makhsoosa ko achi tarhan dekh aur jaan lein takay mubashrat (intercourse) mein ghalti ka imkan naa rahey.
Mubashrat (intercourse) ki mansoba bandi kareyn, tasawwur mein sab kuch kareyn. Mubashrat (intercourse) sey
kam az kam 20 -30 mint pehley foreplay sey lutf andooz hun. Iss kay
liye sab sey pehley dress samaet biwi sey piyar mohabbat kareyn. Iss kay
sarey jism per hath phaerein. Iss sey baghal geer hun. Iss kay saath
liptain, apney jism ko iss kay jism kay sath milaeyn, bheenchein aur
ragrein. Iss ki gardan per hath phaerein, gardan, rukhsaar aur lips ko
kiss karein. Jaldi naa karein. Pehley apney dress utarein phir uskay. Ab
iss kay sarey jism per mukhtalif andaaz sey hath phaerein. Khusoosan
shoulders, paet, hath kay androoni hisson, ranon kay androoni hisson aur
kamar kay nichley hissey per. Ab iss kay hips aur azaa e makhsoosa ko
apney hath sey mushtael karein (tafseel foreplay waley hissey mein dekh
lein).
Intercourse - Mubashrat
Biwi
ki kamar kay neechey takiya rakhleyn aur agar iss kay sareen bohut
patley hain to 2 takyey rakhein. Isski taangon kay darmiyan beth jaein.
Biwi ki taangein thori si kholein aur ooper ko uthaein. Shuru mein iss
ki taangon ko apney shoulders per naa rakhein. Iss sey dakhool deep hoga
aur biwi ko zyada takleef hogi. Ab zakar ko aaza e makhsoosa (vulva)
kay bilkul nichley hissey mein aaram
sey dakhil karein. Pura dakhil naa karein. Phir bahir nikal leyn. Pahli
bar dakhil karney sey faraj ki chiknaahat zakar per lag jaati hai iss
tarhan doosri bar dakhool ziyada aasan hoga. Ab zakar ko phir dakhil
karein. Ab pehley sey zara ziyada dakhil karein. Biwi sey kahain kay woh
aaza-e-makhsoosa (vulva) kay muscles ko bilkul dhela chor dein. Iss
sorat mein isey takleef naa hogi yeh bohut hi mamoli hogi. Tahem isey
iss takleef ko bardasht karna hoga. Takleef kay saath saath isey bai
panaah lutf bhi hasil hoga. Aik bar phir zakar ko bahir nikal leyn.
Nikalnay aur dalnay sey aurat ko bai panaah lutf miley ga. Ab pura
dakhil kardein. Dakhil karney kay baad pursukoon rahein. Dakhool kay
baad biwi kay pistaan aur bazer (clitoris) ko mushta'el karein. Amooman 5
mint kay stimulation sey aurat orgasm hasil karleyti hai. Phir aap
ahista ahista jhatkay lagain aur discharge hojaeyn. Agar aap ko zakar ko
bar bar bahir nikalnay aur dakhil karney mein inzal ka khatra ho to
phir aik hi bar dakhil karein. shuru mein thora phir ziyada karein.
Dakhool kay baad pursukoon rahein kuch deyr baad ahista ahista jhatkay
lagain. Inzal honay sey pehley ruk jaeyn aur paet sey lambai lambai
breath leyn aur zakar ko sukayrain. Inzal ka waqt guzar janay kay baad
phir ahista ahista jhatkay lagain. Inzal kay qareeb ruk jaeyn paet sey
lambai lambai breath leyn aur zakar ko phir sukayrain. Iss ko kay bar
kara ja sakta hai.
Mukammal
dakhool sey parda e bakarat (Hymen) phutt jaeyga. Kuch khoon nikley ga
aur biwi ko kuch takleef bhi hogi magar isey bey panaah lazzat hasil
hogi. Parda e bakarat (Hymen) phatney ki soorat mein uss raat mubashrat (intercourse) naa karein. lekin agar biwi ko zyada takleef naa ho to iss ki khushi aur marzi sey mubashrat (intercourse) ki
ijazat hai. Agar blood naa nikley to bhi pareshan naa hun. Iss ki kaee
wajoohaat ho sakti hain. Baaz aurton ka parda e bakarat (Hymen) paedeshi
tor per hota hi nahi. Baaz ka baghaer blood nikley phat jata hai aur
baaz bachiyon ka khael kood aur haez (menses) kay days mein safai kartey
huai phat jata hai. Baaz khawateen ka parda e bakarat (Hymen) lachak
daar hota hai woh phatta hi nahi aur yeh bachey ki paedesh per hi phatta
hai. First 2 or 4 mubashrat (intercourse) mein
aurat ko kuch takleef hoti hai phir takleef nahi hoti aur phir lutf hi
lutf. Mard kay inzal sey pehley aik shafaf maddey kay chund qatrey zakar
sey nikaltey hain. Yeh koi beemari nahi. Yeh copwer gland sey nikalnay
wala solution hota hai jis ki wajah sey sperm aasani kay saath swim
kartey huai bahir aajatey hain. Iss ki wajah sey peeshaab ki naali
chikni hojaati hai jis ki wajah sey mani (semen) aasani kay saath bahir
nikal aati hai.
Baaz auqaat faraj bohut tang hoti hai yeh jinsi stimulation ki wajah sey
faraj ki entrance mein ziyada blood ajanay ki wajah sey faraj swell
honay ki wajah sey tang hojaati hai. Aisi sorat mein dakhool bohut
mushkil hoti hai. Iss sorat mein aap 20-30 mint kay foreplay kay baad
apni shahadat wali ungli chikni karkay faraj mein ahista ahista dakhil
karein. Iss kay sath sath biwi sey kahein kay woh faraj kay muscles ko
dheela chordey.
Iss sey kam takleef hogi. Kuch der ungli ko sakin rakhein. Thori der
baad ungli ko ander baher harkat dein. Jab biwi isey bardasht karley to
phir ungli kay saath wali 2 fingers chikni karkay faraj mein ahista sey
dalein aur biwi faraj kay muscles ko dheela chordey. Kuch der baad inn
ko ander baher harkat dein. Iss sey amooman parda e bakarat (Hymen) phat
jata hai. Kuch blood nikalta hai aur mamoli si takleef bhi hoti hai
magar iss sey zaberdast jinsi josh bhi paida hota hai. Jab biwi 2
fingers bardasht karley to phir zakar ka dakhool aasan hojata hai. Blood
band honay per aap apney zakar ko chiknaa karein aur tareeqa number 1
(Missionary method) kay mutabiq ahista ahista faraj mein dakhil karein
aur ahista ahista jhatkay lagain. Jhatkay laganay kay saath saath aik
chikni ungli sey clitori aur doosri hath sey biwi kay pistaan ko
mushta'el karein. Taqreeban 80% khawateen ko orgasm kay husul kay liye
inkay bazer (clitoris) ko mushta'el karna zaroori hai Warna woh orgasm
hasil naa kar sakayngi. Inzal kay qareeb ruk jaeyn aur paet sey lambai
lambai breath leyn. Inzal ka waqt guzar janay kay baad phir isi amal ko
dubara karein. 2-4 times iss amal ko karein kay baad discharge hojaeyn.
Agar parda-e-bakarat (Hymen) phutt (rupture)d honay sey biwi ko ziyada
takleef ho to zakham kay ko bharnay tak 1 or 2 days mubashrat (intercourse) nahi karein. Agar biwi mubashrat (intercourse) mein bhar poor tawun karey aur apney jism ko bilkul dhela chor dey to pahli mubashrat (intercourse) mein
isey ziyada takleef naa hogi. Itercourse sey pehley dua pharnaa naa
bholeyn. Dakhool kay baad donon mian biwi per ghusl wajib hojata hai.
Chahey inzal ho ya naa ho.
