Aurton Kay Jinsi Masail

Shadi kay shuru kay days mein bohut si aurtein agarcha foreplay aur mubashrat (intercourse)  sey lutf andooz hoti hain magar inki aik bari tadaad fitri tor per orgasm hasil nahi kar paati. Iss ka zimadar amooman mard nahi hota. Agarcha woh mard jo surat e inzaal ka shikar hotey hain woh iss masley ki wajah sey biwi ko mutmain nahi kar  paatey. Aurton ki aik bohut bari tadaad sirf mubashrat (intercourse)  sey orgasm hasil nahi kart sakti. Kuch aurtein jawani kay shuru kay saal mein fitri tor per orgasm hasil karney sey mehroom rehti hain. Aisi khawateen ko to baqaida orgasm hasil karna seekhna parta hai. Orgasm waley hissey mein iss mozoo per tafseeli guftogu hogi.

    Aurton ki aik bohut mamooli tadaad ko mubashrat (intercourse)  ka bey hud khauf hota hai jis ki wajah sey mubashrat (intercourse)  kay waqt inkay jism khusoosan taangein akar jaati hain aur faraj ka mu'nh bilkul band ho jata hai jis ki wajah sey mubashrat (intercourse)  na mumkin hojata hai. Yeh aik beemari hai jis ka elaj bohut aasan hai. Iss ka tafseeli zikar agai aiga. Baaz aurton ko yeh masla nahi hota magar phir inkay liye dakhool bohut takleef deh bul kay naa mumkin hota hai. Iss ki wajah yeh hoti hai kay kuch khawateen ka parda e bakarat (Hymen) sakt aur mota hota hai jo dakhool mein rukawat banta hai. Aisi sorat mein kisi lady doctor sey rabta kiya jaey mamoli operation sey yeh masla hal ho jata hai.

Afterplay Importance - Ba'ad Az Mubashrat Ki Ahmiyat

After Play (Ba'ad Az Mubashrat)

    Mojoda maahireen afterplay ko bohut ahmiyat detey hain. Taqreeban tamam maahireen kay naazdeek yeh naa sirf bohut ahem bul kay nehayat zaroori hai. En kay nazdeek yeh mubashrat (intercourse)  aur orgasm sey bhi behtar hai. Khusoosan khawateen kay liye yeh bohut hi lutf angaez amar hai. Lehaza mubashrat (intercourse)  ki takmeel kay foran baad zakar ko bahir naa nikaleyn. Biwi sey alehdah naah on bul kay iss kay jism kay saath jism mila kar leytai rahein. Isskay jism per hath phaerein kiss karein. Iss kay saath baghal geer hun. Iss ko bheencheyn. Isski tareef karein, isey baatein ka iss ka jism resham ki tarhan mu'nhleym hai. Iss kay pistaan bey hud khoobsoorat hain issey yeh bhi baatein kay iss kay saath mubashrat (intercourse)  sey aap nay bey panaah lutf uthaya hai. Khusoosan mojoda jinsi amal mein aap ko sab sey acha kiya laga. Iss tarhan woh aa'enda bhi aap ko iss tarhan khushi aur lazat deynay ki koshish kareygi.

    Master and Johnson ki research kay mutabiq woh mard jo discharge kay baad biwi kay jism kay saath jism ko milaey rakhtey hain aur zakar ko foran bahir nahi nikal leytai en ka 50% tanau (erection) discharge honay kay baad barqarar rehta hai. Iss sorat mein agar biwi abhi bhi orgasm  hasil nahi kiya to woh apney bazer (clitoris) ko zakar ki jar kay saath ragar ragar kar orgasm hasil kar leygi.

    Yehi baat aaj sey 1400 year qabal Allah Ta'ala kay Nabi Hazrat Muhammad (P.B.U.H) ney irshad farmein thee " kay biwi sey jald alehdah naa hojao takay woh bhi apni zaroorat puri karley".

    Safaee waghaera kay baad iss kay bazo ya seeney per ser rakh kar so jaein ya biwi aap kay seeney per ser rakh kar sojaey.

Premature Ejaculation - Mardana Jinsi Kamzori

Doosra masla premature ejaculation (surat e inzal) ka hai. Mardon ki seminal vesicles amooman 3.5 days mein bhar jati hain. Phir woh ekhraj ka taqaza karti hain. Mukhtalif wajoohaat ki bina per ghaer shadi shuda mard ki mani (semen) ka regular ekhraj nahi hota Chunancha yeh bhari hui naaliyen mamoli jinsi stimulation sey mani (semen) ko bahir nikal deti hain iss tarhan mard jald discharge hojata hai baaz auqat to dakhool ki koshish hi mein discharge ho jata hai. Iss soorat e hal mein mard shadeed sharmindigi mehsoos karta hai. Yeh koi jismani beemari nahi aur naa hi mardana jinsi kamzori ki alamat hai.

Lehaza aap parisshan naah on, pursukoon rahein. ( Iss book mein iss masley kay bohut sey hal mojood hain jin ka zikar muta'alliqa baab mein hoga) aur 1 – 2 hours kay baad jinsi khail shuru karein to thori deyr mein aap phir jiinsi amal kay liye tayyar hojaein gey to aap dubara mubashrat (intercourse)  karein. Iss bar aap ki karkardagi bohut behtar hogi. Aa'enda bhi kuch arsa rozanaa dubara mubashrat (intercourse)  karein to aap ki karkardegi behtar rahaigi.

Aurton Kay Masail

    Shadi kay shuru kay days mein bohut si aurtein agarcha foreplay aur mubashrat (intercourse)  sey lutf andooz hoti hain magar inki aik bari tadaad fitri tor per orgasm hasil nahi kar paati. Iss ka zimadar amooman mard nahi hota. Agarcha woh mard jo surat e inzaal ka shikar hotey hain woh iss masley ki wajah sey biwi ko mutmain nahi kar  paatey. Aurton ki aik bohut bari tadaad sirf mubashrat (intercourse)  sey orgasm hasil nahi kart sakti. Kuch aurtein jawani kay shuru kay saal mein fitri tor per orgasm hasil karney sey mehroom rehti hain. Aisi khawateen ko to baqaida orgasm hasil karna seekhna parta hai. Orgasm waley hissey mein iss mozoo per tafseeli guftogu hogi.

    Aurton ki aik bohut mamooli tadaad ko mubashrat (intercourse)  ka bey hud khauf hota hai jis ki wajah sey mubashrat (intercourse)  kay waqt inkay jism khusoosan taangein akar jaati hain aur faraj ka mu'nh bilkul band ho jata hai jis ki wajah sey mubashrat (intercourse)  na mumkin hojata hai. Yeh aik beemari hai jis ka elaj bohut aasan hai. Iss ka tafseeli zikar agai aiga. Baaz aurton ko yeh masla nahi hota magar phir inkay liye dakhool bohut takleef deh bul kay naa mumkin hota hai. Iss ki wajah yeh hoti hai kay kuch khawateen ka parda e bakarat (Hymen) sakt aur mota hota hai jo dakhool mein rukawat banta hai. Aisi sorat mein kisi lady doctor sey rabta kiya jaey mamoli operation sey yeh masla hal ho jata hai.

First Intercourse Male Problems

Pehli Mubashrat Kay Masail

Mardon Kay Masail

    Shadi kay hawaley sey mardon ka ahem tareen masla mubashrat (intercourse)  mein naakami ka khauf hota hai. Insan ghalat tor per samajhta hai kay shayad woh shaadi kay qabil nahi aur mubashrat (intercourse)  nahi kar sakey ga. Insan jaisey sochta hai waisey hi hojata hai. Iss soorat mein iss khauf ki wajah sey amooman insan ko mubashrat kay liye matlooba tanau (erection) nahi hota jis ki wajah sey dakhool na mumkin  hojata hai. Iss soorat mein awwal to tanau (erection) hota hi nahi, ya phir bohut hi mamooli hota hai. Teesri soorat yeh hoti hai kay isey tanau (erection) bilkul theek hota hai magar dakhool kay waqt yakdam khatam hojata hai jis ki wajah sey insan sharminda aur pareshan hojata hai. Jawani mein yeh masla taqreeban kabhi jismani nahi hota. Agar aap ko kisi bhi waqt khusoosan subha kay waqt tanau (erection) hota hai to aap bilkiul normal hain aap ka masla nafsiyati hai. Sex kay hawaley sey hamari society mein pheli hui bey shumaar ghalat baaton (jin mein sey ahem ka zikar book kay shuru mein mojood hai) ki wajah sey aksar naujawan apney aap ko ghalat tor per mardana kamzori ka shikar samajh letey hain. Inhein khauf hota hai kay woh mubashrat (intercourse)  mein nakam hojaein gey inn khadshaat aur khauf ki wajah sey insan mubashrat (intercourse)  mein nakam hojata hai aisi soorat mein aap bilkul pur sukoon rahein. 2 weeks kay liye mubashrat (intercourse) naa karein magar rozana foreplay karein. Bharpoor tanau (erection) ki soorat mein bhi mubashrat (intercourse)  sey bachein. InshaAllah 2 week baad aap ka masla khatam hojaey ga. Basorat deegar kisi achey mahir e nafsiyat sey raabta karein. Waisey iss book mein iss masley ka hal mojood hai. Iss sey faida uthaien.

Preparation For First Intercourse - Pehli Mubaashirat Ki Tayyari

Doosri taraf agar mard ko surat e inzal ka khauf ya tanau ka masla hai to do din mubashrat (intercourse) kay bajaey foreplay karney sey iss ka surat e inzal aur naakami kay khauf bohut had tak khatam ya kam az kam bohut kam hojata hai. En days mubashrat (intercourse)  kay bajaey sirf foreplay sey jinsi lutf hasil karein. Albatta jab bhi pehli mubashrat (first intercourse)  karni ho iss ki baqaida tayyari kareyn, sham ko kam sey jald wapis ajaeyn, khana jaldi aur halka khaein. Biwi ki tareef karein, isey bataein kay aap ko iss raat ka barson sey intezar tha. Kaam per bhi aap isey yad kartey rahey.

    Sham ko ghusl karlein, tooth paste karna naa bholein, apney jism aur libas ko khusboo sey muatter karein. Foreplay sey pehley biwi kay jism khusoosan aaza e makhsoosa ko achi tarhan dekh aur jaan lein takay mubashrat (intercourse)  mein ghalti ka imkan naa rahey.

    Mubashrat (intercourse)  ki mansoba bandi kareyn, tasawwur mein sab kuch kareyn. Mubashrat (intercourse)  sey kam az kam 20 -30 mint pehley foreplay sey lutf andooz hun. Iss kay liye sab sey pehley dress samaet biwi sey piyar mohabbat kareyn. Iss kay sarey jism per hath phaerein. Iss sey baghal geer hun. Iss kay saath liptain, apney jism ko iss kay jism kay sath milaeyn, bheenchein aur ragrein. Iss ki gardan per hath phaerein, gardan, rukhsaar aur lips ko kiss karein. Jaldi naa karein. Pehley apney dress utarein phir uskay. Ab iss kay sarey jism per mukhtalif andaaz sey hath phaerein. Khusoosan shoulders, paet, hath kay androoni hisson, ranon kay androoni hisson aur kamar kay nichley hissey per. Ab iss kay hips aur azaa e makhsoosa ko apney hath sey mushtael karein (tafseel foreplay waley hissey mein dekh lein).

Intercourse - Mubashrat  Biwi ki kamar kay neechey takiya rakhleyn aur agar iss kay sareen bohut patley hain to 2 takyey rakhein. Isski taangon kay darmiyan beth jaein. Biwi ki taangein thori si kholein aur ooper ko uthaein. Shuru mein iss ki taangon ko apney shoulders per naa rakhein. Iss sey dakhool deep hoga aur biwi ko zyada takleef hogi. Ab zakar ko aaza e makhsoosa (vulva) kay bilkul nichley hissey mein aaram sey dakhil karein. Pura dakhil naa karein. Phir bahir nikal leyn. Pahli bar dakhil karney sey faraj ki chiknaahat zakar per lag jaati hai iss tarhan doosri bar dakhool ziyada aasan hoga. Ab zakar ko phir dakhil karein. Ab pehley sey zara ziyada dakhil karein. Biwi sey kahain kay woh aaza-e-makhsoosa (vulva) kay muscles ko bilkul dhela chor dein. Iss sorat mein isey takleef naa hogi yeh bohut hi mamoli hogi. Tahem isey iss takleef ko bardasht karna hoga. Takleef kay saath saath isey bai panaah lutf bhi hasil hoga. Aik bar phir zakar ko bahir nikal leyn. Nikalnay aur dalnay sey aurat ko bai panaah lutf miley ga. Ab pura dakhil kardein. Dakhil karney kay baad pursukoon rahein. Dakhool kay baad biwi kay pistaan aur bazer (clitoris) ko mushta'el karein. Amooman 5 mint kay stimulation sey aurat orgasm hasil karleyti hai. Phir aap ahista ahista jhatkay lagain aur discharge hojaeyn. Agar aap ko zakar ko bar bar bahir nikalnay aur dakhil karney mein inzal ka khatra ho to phir aik hi bar dakhil karein. shuru mein thora phir ziyada karein. Dakhool kay baad pursukoon rahein kuch deyr baad ahista ahista jhatkay lagain. Inzal honay sey pehley ruk jaeyn aur paet sey lambai lambai breath leyn aur zakar ko sukayrain. Inzal ka waqt guzar janay kay baad phir ahista ahista jhatkay lagain. Inzal kay qareeb ruk jaeyn paet sey lambai lambai breath leyn aur zakar ko phir sukayrain. Iss ko kay bar kara ja sakta hai.

Mukammal dakhool sey parda e bakarat (Hymen) phutt jaeyga. Kuch khoon nikley ga aur biwi ko kuch takleef bhi hogi magar isey bey panaah lazzat hasil hogi. Parda e bakarat (Hymen) phatney ki soorat mein uss raat mubashrat (intercourse)  naa karein. lekin agar biwi ko zyada takleef naa ho to iss ki khushi aur marzi sey mubashrat (intercourse)  ki ijazat hai. Agar blood naa nikley to bhi pareshan naa hun. Iss ki kaee wajoohaat ho sakti hain. Baaz aurton ka parda e bakarat (Hymen) paedeshi tor per hota hi nahi. Baaz ka baghaer blood nikley phat jata hai aur baaz bachiyon ka khael kood aur haez (menses) kay days mein safai kartey huai phat jata hai. Baaz khawateen ka parda e bakarat (Hymen) lachak daar hota hai woh phatta hi nahi aur yeh bachey ki paedesh per hi phatta hai. First 2 or 4 mubashrat (intercourse)  mein aurat ko kuch takleef hoti hai phir takleef nahi hoti aur phir lutf hi lutf. Mard kay inzal sey pehley aik shafaf maddey kay chund qatrey zakar sey nikaltey hain. Yeh koi beemari nahi. Yeh copwer gland sey nikalnay wala solution hota hai jis ki wajah sey sperm aasani kay saath swim kartey huai bahir aajatey hain. Iss ki wajah sey peeshaab ki naali chikni hojaati hai jis ki wajah sey mani (semen) aasani kay saath bahir nikal aati hai.

    Baaz auqaat faraj bohut tang hoti hai yeh jinsi stimulation ki wajah sey faraj ki entrance mein ziyada blood ajanay ki wajah sey faraj swell honay ki wajah sey tang hojaati hai. Aisi sorat mein dakhool bohut mushkil hoti hai. Iss sorat mein aap 20-30 mint kay foreplay kay baad apni shahadat wali ungli chikni karkay faraj mein ahista ahista dakhil karein. Iss kay sath sath biwi sey kahein kay woh faraj kay muscles ko dheela chordey.

Iss sey kam takleef hogi. Kuch der ungli ko sakin rakhein. Thori der baad ungli ko ander baher harkat dein. Jab biwi isey bardasht karley to phir ungli kay saath wali 2 fingers chikni karkay faraj mein ahista sey dalein aur biwi faraj kay muscles ko dheela chordey. Kuch der baad inn ko ander baher harkat dein. Iss sey amooman parda e bakarat (Hymen) phat jata hai. Kuch blood nikalta hai aur mamoli si takleef bhi hoti hai magar iss sey zaberdast jinsi josh bhi paida hota hai. Jab biwi 2 fingers bardasht karley to phir zakar ka dakhool aasan hojata hai. Blood band honay per aap apney zakar ko chiknaa karein aur tareeqa number 1 (Missionary method) kay mutabiq ahista ahista faraj mein dakhil karein aur ahista ahista jhatkay lagain. Jhatkay laganay kay saath saath aik chikni ungli sey clitori aur doosri hath sey biwi kay pistaan ko mushta'el karein. Taqreeban 80% khawateen ko orgasm kay husul kay liye inkay bazer (clitoris) ko mushta'el karna zaroori hai Warna woh orgasm hasil naa kar sakayngi. Inzal kay qareeb ruk jaeyn aur paet sey lambai lambai breath leyn. Inzal ka waqt guzar janay kay baad phir isi amal ko dubara karein. 2-4 times iss amal ko karein kay baad discharge hojaeyn. Agar parda-e-bakarat (Hymen) phutt (rupture)d honay sey biwi ko ziyada takleef ho to zakham kay ko bharnay tak 1 or 2 days mubashrat (intercourse)  nahi karein. Agar biwi mubashrat (intercourse)  mein bhar poor tawun karey aur apney jism ko bilkul dhela chor dey to pahli mubashrat (intercourse)  mein isey ziyada takleef naa hogi. Itercourse sey pehley dua pharnaa naa bholeyn. Dakhool kay baad donon mian biwi per ghusl wajib hojata hai. Chahey inzal ho ya naa ho.

First Night Of Marriage - Shadi Ki Pehli Raat

Humarey yahan first night of marriage (shadi ki pehli raat) mubashrat (intercourse)  ko zaroori samajha jata hai Warna valima jaeyz naa hoga. Quran o Sunnah ki roshni mein iss baat ki koi haqeeqat nahi hai. Humarey yahan amooman nikah raat ko bohut late hota hai. Dulhan ko ghar pohonchtey pohonchtey raat kay 2 ya 2 ½ baj jatey hain jis ki wajah sey dulha aur dulhan thak kar choor ho jatey hain. Thakawat kay elawa donon khauf, ghabrahat aur jhijhak ka shikar bhi hotey hain. Khusoosan agar donon pehley sey ek doosrey sey waqif na hun.

 Larkay ko amooman nakami jab kay larki ko mubashrat (intercourse)  ki takleef ka khauf hota hai. Iss khauf aur anxiety  ki wajah sey amooman aurat ki faraj ki entrance tang hojati hai aur faraj kay ander chiknaahat ki kami bhi hojaati hai jis ki wajah sey dakhool aur mubashrat (intercourse)  takleef dey hojata hai. Doosri taraf larka samajhta hai kay agar iss nay pahli night mubashrat (intercourse)  naa kiya to larki samajhai gi kay shayad mian iss qabil nahi (halan kay aurtein amooman iss tarhan nahi sochtiin) jawani mein har mard jismani lehaz sey normal aur jinsi amal ka puri tarhan sey ahull hota hai. Albatta khauf aur zehni  dabao ki wajah sey baaz auqat isey tanau (erection) nahi hota yeh aain time per khatam hojata hai jokay aik fitri amal hai. Kyun kay khauf, zehni  dabao aur tension tanau (erection) kay dushman hain. Lehaza iss sorat-e-haal kay paesh-e-nazar pehli raat sex ko ziyada ahmiyat naa di jaey Chunancha pehli raat mubashrat (intercourse)  naa karna donon kay liye mufeed hai. Waisey bhi pehli raat mubashrat (intercourse)  donon kay liye kisi had tak takleef deh hoti hai. Thakawat aur tension mein yeh takleef ziyada mehsoos hoti hai.

    Behtar hai kay pehli raat donon mian biwi ghup shup karein. Ek doosrey sey waqfiyat hasil kareyn ek doosrey sey maanoos hun

Ek doosrey ko samjhein, ek doosrey ki pasand naa pasand, jazbaat ehsaasaat aur khwahishat sey aagahi  hasil kareyn. Mubashrat (intercourse)  kay elawa kaee doosrey tareeqon sey bhi jinsi lutf hasil kiya ja sakta hai. Maslan piyar Mohabbat ki baatein, aurat ko Mohabbat ki baatein bey hud pasand hain. Mian biwi kay husun-o-jamal ki tareef karey. Donon kiss sey lutf andooz hun. Aik doosrey kay jism kay lamz sey lazat hasil kareyn. Ek doosrey kay jism per hath phaerein, massage kareyn. Biwi ko galey lagain, bhenchain, baghal geer hun, iss kay saath liptein, yeh sab kuch donon kay liye bohut lutf angaez hoga. Phir aik doosrey kay saath lipat kar so jaeyn lekin agar donon ek doosrey sey pehley hi waqif hun to bhi pehli raat mubashrat (intercourse)  zaroori nahi hai. Amooman thakawat ki wajah sey donon zyada lutf andooz nahi hotey. Agar donon fresh hun, razi hun, to phir mubashrat (intercourse)  mein koi harj nahi. lekin agar biwi zyada khauf zada hai yeh isey bohut zyada dard mehsoos ho to phir mubashrat (intercourse) naa kareyn. Biwi kay ta'awwun aur razamandi kay baghaer zabardasti mubashrat (intercourse)  naa ki jaey. Iss sey biwi kay dil mein nafrat paeda ho jati hai baaz auqat iss nafrat ki wajah sey biwi aik taweel arsey mubashrat (intercourse)  sey lutf andooz nahi ho sakti aur mubashrat (intercourse)  aur jinsi amal mein bhar poor shirkat nahi karti.

    Tahem behtar yehi hai kay pehley ek do din ek doosrey ko samajhney, maanoos honay, ek doosrey kay jazbat o ehsaasat, khwahishat, pasand aur naa pasand ko janney mein guzarein. Mubashrat (intercourse)  ko ek do din multawi karna donon kay liye bey hudd mufeed hai. Iss sey aurat ka khauf kam hojata hai, woh zyada ta'awwun karti hai.

Shadi Ki Pehli Raat In Urdu For Men - Pehli Mobashrat

Shaadi ki buniyad mubashrat (intercourse)  hai. Pehli mubashrat (First intercourse)  darasal mard ka aurat per first impression hota hai. First impression ka moqa insan ko aik hi bar milta hai. Mard chata hai kay iss ka first impression  bohut shandaar ho. Chunancha woh iss hawaley sey bohut conscious hota hai. Chunancha first impression ko shandaar bananey kay liye pehli mubashrat (first intercourse)  sey pehley behtar hai kay aap iss book kay "Mubashrat "  mubashrat kay adaab "Mohabbat ka khel" aur "Mubashrat kay tareeqey" waley hissey ko aik bar phir baghor phar ley.

    "Mubashrat kay adaab" kay mutabiq hujla urusi ko khoob sajaya jaey. Kamrey ka mahol khushgawar aur pur sukoon ho. Bath room kay saath ho to ziyada behtar hoga. Bister per flowers ki paatiyan bhekbaali jaeyn. Room ko mom batti ki roshni sey sehar angaez banaya jaey. Mubashrat (intercourse)  mein use honay wala zaroori saman qareeb mojood ho.

    Dulha aur dulhan ghusl kar kay din bhar ki thakawat ko door kar kay fresh hojaeyn. Mian tasawur karey ka biwi ko jinsi amal aur mubashrat (intercourse)  kay hawaley sey kuch pata nahi hai lehaza woh isey iss silsiley mein  zaroori malomat farham karey maslan biwi ko bataein kay :

First Intercourse - Pehli Mubashrat

1. Allah kay piyarey Nabi Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) ney jinsi amal ko naeki aur sadqa qarar diya hai jis ka sawab milta hai. (Muslim)
2. Biwi mian kay saath ta'awwun karey. Agar woh baghaer kisi ma'aqool wajah kay ta'awun sey inkar karey to farishtey sari raat iss per laanat bhaijtey hain. (Abu Dawood, Muslim, Nisa'ee)
3. Mubashrat ek purlutf amal hai agarcha pehli bar kuch takleef hoti hai. lekin agar biwi apni sari tawajjah jinsi lutf per markhooz karey to takleef ka zyada ehsaas nahi hota. Agar bharpoor ta'awwun karey aur apney jism ko dheela chor dey to takleef bhi kam hoti hai.

    Pehli raat biwi ki tawaza, dil dari aur dil joi ki jaey. Allah kay pak naabi Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H) nay Hazrat Ayesha ko doodh pilaya (ahmed) amooman larki apnaa ghar chor kar naey ghar aur naey mahool mein aati hai. Woh khauf ghabrahat aur nervousness ka shikar hoti hai. Woh mian aur susral walo kay hawaley sey kay tarhan kay khadshat ka shikar hoti hai. Iss sorat mein isey dil joi ki sakht zaroorat hoti hai. Behtar hai kay donon 2 , 2 nafil phar leyn. Kamiyab aur pur sakoon zindagi ki dua kareyn. Iss sey insan per sukoon hojata hai. Jis ki wajah sey tanau (erection) bhar poor hoga aur inzal bhi jald naa hoga. Tahem agar kisi mard ko surat e inzal ka masla hai ya khauf hai ka inzal jald ho jaey ga to aisey fard kay liye mahireen tajweez kartey hain kay woh mubashrat (intercourse)  sey 2 hours pehley khudlazaati karley. Iss sey insan jismani lehaz sey pur sukoon hojata hai aur phir mubashrat (intercourse)  mein jald ejaculate nahi hota

Sex Positions In Islam

Isi tarah Abdullah Ibn e Abbas sey rivayat hai kay ek din Hazrat Omar bin Khattab Hazrat Muhammad ki khidmat mein hazir huey aur arz ki kay aey Allah kay rasool mein barbaad hogaya, aap ney farmaya tum kyun barbaad ho gaey arz ki: raat meine apni sawari ka kajawah palat diya, aap ney jawab na diya to yeh ayat nazil hui "Tumahri aurtein tumhari khaeti hai to tum apni khaeti mein jis tarah chaho aa saktey ho". Ek aur hadees hai Hazrat Jabir beyan karte hain kay yahoodiyo'n ka kehna hai kay agar koi shohar apni biwi sey peechey ki taraf reh kar mubashrat (sex) karey to aisi surat mein bhaenga bacha paeda hoga. Umm ul momineen Hazrat Hafsah sey rivayat hai kay ek khatoon ney unn sey shikayat kii kay unka shohar usey pehlu kay bul lita kar sex (mubashrat) karta hai jab Hazrat Muhammad sey poocha gaya to aap ney farmaya kay koi harj nahin agar ek sooraakh tak mehdood ho.(masnad-e-imam abu hanifa)     Inn ahadees sey ma'aloom hua kay Allah Ta'ala kay nabi kareem kay daur main madinah mein mubashrat (sex) kay ek se za'ed tareeqey ra'ej thay.

Missionary Tariqa (Missionary Position)

    Iss tariqey ko baadshah ka tariqa bhi kaha jata hai poori dunya mein sab sey zyada ma'aroof, aam aur zyada istimal honay wala tariqa yehi hai ba'az log ghalat tor per isey islami tareeqa samajhtey hain taa'hum aaj kal isey daqyanoosi aur boring tariqa samjha jata hai iss mein aurat neechey aur mard ooper hota hai, amooman aasan dakhool kay liye aurat ki kamar kay neechey takya rakha jata hai khusoosan agar aurat dubli patli aur uskay sareen (hips) bhi dubley patley hun, mard aurat ki donon taa'ngo'n kay darmyan ghutno'n kay bul bethta hai aurat ki taa'ngein mard kay donon taraf aur kabhi kandhon per hoti hain kabhi mard kay jism kay sath mili hui aur kabhi khuli, taa'ngein khuli hun to dakhool zyada aasaan ho jata hai.

    Iss tariqey kay bohut saarey fawaed hain naey shaadi shuda jorey kay liye yeh ek mufeed position hai iss mein dakhool aasan hai, iss position mein hamal theherna nisbatan aasan hai, wo mard jin ko tanau (erection) kam ho unn kay liye mufeed hai. Iss mein dakhool kay ba'ad amooman zakar faraj sey baher nahin nikalta, gehrey dakhool aur chotey zakar (small penis) kay liye yeh ek mu'asser tariqa hai. Iss surat mein biwi ki taa'ngein mard apney kandho'n per rakh leta hai, iss tarah agar mard chota hai aur aurat barey jism wali hai wahan yeh ek acha tariqa hai, ba'az mahireen kay mutabiq donon kay jald inzaal kay liye ek mufeed position hai woh afraad jo zyada der tak mubashrat kar saktey hain unn kay liye shaandaar aur zyada lutf angaez tariqa hai.

Missionary Position

 

 Iss tariqay mein control mard kay paas hota hai le'haza woh apni marzi sey harkat karta hai aur mubashrat sey zyada lutf uthata hai iss tariqey ka ek ahem faeda yeh hai kay iss mein khawand biwi kay hassas tareen hisson ko aasani sey mushta'il kar sakta hai jo kay har aurat ki jinsi lazzat aur orgasm kay husool kay liye bohut zaroori hai khawand biwi kay bazer (clitoris), faraj (vagina), androoni lub (labias) aur pistaan (breast) waghaera ko aasani sey mushta'il kar sakta hai woh biwi kay pistaanon ko choom aur choos sakta hai. Iss kay ooper laet kar iss kay pistaano'n sey apney seeney ka massage kar kay bharpoor lutf utha sakta hai, dakhool kay ba'ad aurat khud bhi apney bazer waghaera ko mushta'il kar sakti hai jo kay uss kay orgasm kay liye zaroori hai, iss tariqey mein baiwi khawand kay zakar aur khusyo'n ko mushta'il kar sakti hai jo khawand kay liye saher angaez hai.

    Taa'hum iss tariqey ki kuch khamiya'n bhi hain maslan yah tariqa unn afraad kay liye amooman badtareen hai jo sur'at e inzal (premature ejaculation) kay mareez hain yani jo jald manzil (discharge) ho jatey hain kyun kay iss tariqey mein amooman mard jald manzil ho jata hai agarcha ba'az afraad kay liye yeh theek hai kyun kay control mard kay paas hota hai, agar mard ka wazan zyada ho to wahan yeh ghaer munasib tariqa hai kyun kay aurat kay liye khawand ka wazan sambhalna mushkil hota hai iss tariqey mein amooman aurat harkat nahin kar sakti le'haza woh sex sey bharpoor andaz mein lutf andoz nahin ho sakti iss tarah chu'nkay aurat ko dakhool per control hasil nahin hota jis ki wajah sey ba'az auqaat gehrey dakhool sey aurat ko takleef hoti hai.